The Secret of You and Me is the story of Nora Noakes and Sophie Russell. Nora, ex army, returns home to Texas from DC after her father dies. Coming home for his funeral is the first time she has returned to her home town since getting kicked out as a teenager. She has to navigate the many weird, uncomfortable and awkward relationships that she had left behind, and she wants to leave town as soon as possible. However, circumstances outside of her control trap her there. Sophie, her ex best friend, never left the town, and is now married to Charlie, Nora’s ex boyfriend, and has a teenage daughter. It’s impossible for them to avoid seeing each other again. Nora returning home rekindles old friendships and flames, but might they be better off left alone?
The book switches between Nora’s point of view and Sophie’s point of view. I liked the balance of getting both sides of the story. The tension between Nora and Sophie, with all of their shared history, is just so painfully good. And the Nora – Sophie – Charlie triangle is so complicated, full of secrets and lies. Throughout the whole book I was on the edge of my seat trying to figure out the truth. The tangled web of broken down relationships simply oozes regret and nostalgia. This book is about grudges, grief, reconciliation, love and loss, and is packed full of messy, complex emotions.
I found this book really easy to read. I was hooked by the secrets, and trying to figure out the truth. I loved the characters. The main characters are brilliant, complicated, flawed people, and there is also a whole cast of interesting side characters. Everything feels real. Real people with real lives. There’s plenty of brilliant, catty, snarky dialogue, but also some really emotional, heartwrenching moments as well. The book deals well with mental illness. It touches on both PTSD and alcoholism, and I felt like both were portrayed well. Nora’s stint in the army wasn’t glorified, either. Prejudice and religion feature heavily as well. Nora and Sophie’s story is very much defined by the oppressive place they grew up in, and the homophobia that they both experienced and internalised. This story is about overcoming the past, and moving on, or moving forward. Is it even possible to right old wrongs?
The Secret of Me and You is an intense book, and it really made me feel a whole raft of emotions. I loved it. It made me think a little bit of Dark Places and Sharp Objects by Gillian Flynn, and Big Little Lies by Lianne Moriarty, although the drama is much more subtle. I highly recommend this book if you like slow burn romance, complex and messy relationships, and plenty of secrets and lies.
I received this book from Netgalley for free in return for an honest review.